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	<title>Comments on: Quitting and Freelancing: When the Brushoff is Sorely Needed</title>
	<link>http://www.quietrebelwriter.com/2008/05/13/quitting-and-freelancing-when-the-brushoff-is-sorely-needed/</link>
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	<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 05:19:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Elizabeth McQuern</title>
		<link>http://www.quietrebelwriter.com/2008/05/13/quitting-and-freelancing-when-the-brushoff-is-sorely-needed/#comment-3010</link>
		<author>Elizabeth McQuern</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 23:45:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>"I remind him that I am a freelancer, but that doesn’t mean I am available at all hours of the day and night. He says quite plainly that’s what he’s looking for."

No. Seriously? No.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I remind him that I am a freelancer, but that doesn’t mean I am available at all hours of the day and night. He says quite plainly that’s what he’s looking for.&#8221;</p>
<p>No. Seriously? No.</p>
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		<title>By: Sharon Hurley Hall</title>
		<link>http://www.quietrebelwriter.com/2008/05/13/quitting-and-freelancing-when-the-brushoff-is-sorely-needed/#comment-3012</link>
		<author>Sharon Hurley Hall</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 00:06:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Thanks for linking to my article. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for linking to my article. <img src='http://www.quietrebelwriter.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Paul Darcy</title>
		<link>http://www.quietrebelwriter.com/2008/05/13/quitting-and-freelancing-when-the-brushoff-is-sorely-needed/#comment-3020</link>
		<author>Paul Darcy</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 13:58:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.quietrebelwriter.com/2008/05/13/quitting-and-freelancing-when-the-brushoff-is-sorely-needed/#comment-3020</guid>
					<description>I am so glad you were polite but dumped this obvious A-Hole. I've worked with a few of these types (not freelance though) and sometimes they only respond when you tell them 'literally' to F-Off.

I took a freelance writing course a few years ago and the advice was quite good. What she told us was to remember that you are worth in X dollars per hour and never go lower, and to be crystal clear how many hours and how much money to expect from any client up front - changes in what is expected should return more money. If they don't agree - tell them to bugger off. Your time and efforts are worth much more - whey else would they be hiring you if they could do it themselves?

Sounds feeble in print, but as writers we get the short end way too often and try to strike compromises too quickly. Stick to your principals, work ethics and guns and in the end your integrity and reputation will precede you. And let those A-Hole clients go F-Themselves.

I just get kinda peeved hearing how we writers sometimes get stepped on like we are a sub-class of second class citizens.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so glad you were polite but dumped this obvious A-Hole. I&#8217;ve worked with a few of these types (not freelance though) and sometimes they only respond when you tell them &#8216;literally&#8217; to F-Off.</p>
<p>I took a freelance writing course a few years ago and the advice was quite good. What she told us was to remember that you are worth in X dollars per hour and never go lower, and to be crystal clear how many hours and how much money to expect from any client up front - changes in what is expected should return more money. If they don&#8217;t agree - tell them to bugger off. Your time and efforts are worth much more - whey else would they be hiring you if they could do it themselves?</p>
<p>Sounds feeble in print, but as writers we get the short end way too often and try to strike compromises too quickly. Stick to your principals, work ethics and guns and in the end your integrity and reputation will precede you. And let those A-Hole clients go F-Themselves.</p>
<p>I just get kinda peeved hearing how we writers sometimes get stepped on like we are a sub-class of second class citizens.</p>
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
		<link>http://www.quietrebelwriter.com/2008/05/13/quitting-and-freelancing-when-the-brushoff-is-sorely-needed/#comment-3025</link>
		<author>Amy</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 16:12:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>@Elizabeth - totally serious. I know, right??

@Sharon - thanks for providing great content!

@Paul - Terrific points. Sounds like a great class you attended, one with the perfect perspective on day-to-day freelancing work. It's so true, isn't it? I read this post yesterday about the difference between being firm and being mean. Being firm is sticking to your principles, ensuring that you are respected, and in turn respecting others. Being mean is just being irrational and garnering attention through fear. I strive to be firm, and so was proud that I was able to get through the confrontation with this douche with the utmost logic and firmness.  Thanks for chiming in, Paul, and stick around!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Elizabeth - totally serious. I know, right??</p>
<p>@Sharon - thanks for providing great content!</p>
<p>@Paul - Terrific points. Sounds like a great class you attended, one with the perfect perspective on day-to-day freelancing work. It&#8217;s so true, isn&#8217;t it? I read this post yesterday about the difference between being firm and being mean. Being firm is sticking to your principles, ensuring that you are respected, and in turn respecting others. Being mean is just being irrational and garnering attention through fear. I strive to be firm, and so was proud that I was able to get through the confrontation with this douche with the utmost logic and firmness.  Thanks for chiming in, Paul, and stick around!</p>
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		<title>By: Charlie Gilkey &#124; Productive Flourishing</title>
		<link>http://www.quietrebelwriter.com/2008/05/13/quitting-and-freelancing-when-the-brushoff-is-sorely-needed/#comment-3068</link>
		<author>Charlie Gilkey &#124; Productive Flourishing</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 16:07:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.quietrebelwriter.com/2008/05/13/quitting-and-freelancing-when-the-brushoff-is-sorely-needed/#comment-3068</guid>
					<description>I made the mistake early in my tenure of command of being very flexible with my ability to meet with my bosses from echelons above reality, and things went well for a while because we were getting things done.  Unfortunately, they confused on-call flexibility with on-call availability and started assuming that I could do what they wanted whenever they wanted me to do it.  So, I made it known: I have a flexible schedule, but I am not always available.

In retrospect, I recognize that I am somewhat complicit since I didn't start firm.  So in the future, as much as possible, expectations will be set at the beginning.  I've found that I actually get more than I expect when I do so...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I made the mistake early in my tenure of command of being very flexible with my ability to meet with my bosses from echelons above reality, and things went well for a while because we were getting things done.  Unfortunately, they confused on-call flexibility with on-call availability and started assuming that I could do what they wanted whenever they wanted me to do it.  So, I made it known: I have a flexible schedule, but I am not always available.</p>
<p>In retrospect, I recognize that I am somewhat complicit since I didn&#8217;t start firm.  So in the future, as much as possible, expectations will be set at the beginning.  I&#8217;ve found that I actually get more than I expect when I do so&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: 2ThePoint</title>
		<link>http://www.quietrebelwriter.com/2008/05/13/quitting-and-freelancing-when-the-brushoff-is-sorely-needed/#comment-3169</link>
		<author>2ThePoint</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2008 12:46:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Oh dear, what a nightmare. I haven't had any real nightmares yet (touch wood), but then, I don't do this full time. What an asshole, though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh dear, what a nightmare. I haven&#8217;t had any real nightmares yet (touch wood), but then, I don&#8217;t do this full time. What an asshole, though.</p>
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